I’m probably overly sensitive to this as I often have doubts and questions and struggle with my own faith; it’s never come easy to me, though it was simpler in high school:
I absolutely hate it when people belittle my faith simply because it’s Christianity. They preach tolerance, but they – the ubiquitous, prolific, anonymous they – are intolerant of the Christian God. It’s fashionable to be intolerant, and it literally tears me up inside when I read something disdainful or mocking, particularly if it’s from someone I admire. They’re so careful to not say anything demeaning about homosexuality or any other religion, but it’s open season on Christianity.
I don’t care about the inconsistencies you read about in a forwarded email or heard from an equally pretentious friend; you’ve not read the book yourself. I don’t care you’ve seen poverty and can’t see a God there; I can. I don’t care if you’ve had a hard life, been bullied; so have I…
… It’s hard to stand up and say I’m a Christian when people refuse to respect that and instead spew vitriol or mockery. It’s hard to be able to take that day after day, to be labelled as something I’m not once people learn I’m a Christian. Sometimes I just say I was brought up in an evangelical, conservative family. Sometimes I don’t say I’m still pretty conservative. I know what’s going to happen once people know: I’ll be that Christian girl.
I’m respectful. I’m tolerant. I don’t judge you by the actions of a few idiots. I don’t belittle your faith (or lack thereof). I’d like the same consideration.
If for no other reason that I’m really kinda passed the point of annoyance on this and might blow up at you.
October 26, 2011 at 12:43 pm
Christianity is real simple. It is quite simply a relationship with Jesus and walking in His steps. It is not always what the church and other Chistians think it is. Hence the reason some have left Christianity but kept their faith. It is critical, however, that “we do not forsake the fellowship of believers.”
October 31, 2011 at 3:09 pm
Having a circle of friends that are very pagan can be difficult. I have little that I relate to with them other than philosophy of education. Our relationship can only go so deep. However, I find them much more tolerant of my beliefs than many of my Christian friends are of them. Many people have had difficult encounters with Christians and that has colored their impression. I try to be an open friend even if I can’t agree with everything!
Dad- the kids and I were just talking about that this morning – I can’t remember which one brought it up!